The easiest thing in the world is to be you. The most difficult thing to be is what other people want you to be. Don't let them put you in that position.
"We've got this gift of love, but love is like a precious plant. You can't just accept it and leave it in the cupboard or just think it's going to get on by itself. You've got to keep watering it. You've got to really look after it and nurture it.". ~John Lennon
as if I didnt know this already, but a reminder is so very necessary ..
