In no particular order ... *note to self*

1) Preserve your sexy
All women need to preserve their sexy. Not for men, but for themselves. The more you preserve your sexy and embrace yourself ... the more attractive you become. It's a virtuous cycle.

2) If "he's not that into you" ... find someone else or remain content with yourself

3) Raise your standards.
Apparently women are too picky. Myth! We're not picky enough. I personally think all women should raise the bar. Expect more! Expect more respect, more kindness, more love, more cake, more *insert virtue*

4) Become More
If we expect more, we’ve got to become more. Want more respect? Be more respectful. Expect more love? Be more loving.

5) Don't tell ALL your friends
Everyone doesn't need to know what's going in your love life. Know what to keep to yourself.


6) Own Your Power
You can not pretend to be anything less than you are. You are so huge. You can’t go around dimming your light just to be walking with someone else. What you really want is to be completely full of yourself so that your cup runneth over so you give it to other people. Not in an arrogant way but so that you absolutely own your own power. OWN YOUR OWN POWER! ~Oprah Winfrey


7) Take each day as it comes and enjoy the moment