Is that really too much to ask for?

I'm not looking to get fucked and throwed out like yesterdays garbage; I want a meaningful relationship something long lasting and worth the trip.

I want someone where we can have an open and honest relationship where trust and respect demands full attention.

I want someone who will not make me insecure to please his own ego; who respects me enough to be able to talk to me about any and everything and doesn't need to seek endless attention from other women.

I want someone who is faithful and committed enough to be in a
monogamous relationship.

I want someone who will only have eyes for me I want that kind of love that when I walk into the room he sees me in color and the other women just fade to black and white.

I want someone who will be there for me (emotionally, mentally and physically) and if I happen to have a flat tire he drops everything and comes to my rescue.

I want a super hero.

I want someone who is romantic and spontaneous and do sweet little things "just because".

I want someone who doesn't make promises he can't keep, he is reliable and dependable, and he doesn't blame others for his failures or mistakes.

I want someone who is forward-thinking and plans ahead for his immediate and distant future.

I want someone to realize that once he's made that decision to be with me he also has to consider my 2 kids - that we three we're a complete package and although they don't need a father they do need that positive strong role model to emulate and to love their mother unconditionally.


~C.Ann M. Graham
circa September 2009

I beg you don't give yourself to any and everyone ....

I beg you don't give yourself to any and everyone ....

on a Dopamine high

"a happy life isnt about chasing a man or even having a man ... a happy life is about being the best woman you can be"

“When people show you who they are, believe them the first time.  ~Maya Angelou

Remember this because it will happen many times in your life. When people show you who they are the first time believe them. Not the 29th. time. When a man doesn't call you back the first time, when you are mistreated the first time, when someone shows you lack of integrity or dishonesty the first time, know that this will be followed many many other times, that will some point in life come back to haunt or hurt you. Live your life in truth. Don't pretend to be someone your not. You will survive anything if you live your life from the point of view of truth.”



― Oprah Winfrey

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