If you're not married ..... you're single .....

Relationship blogger Life Skills has alot to say about single women in relationships ... the following is a snippet of what he says ...

“The real problem with women in relationships is that they are doing marital acts with their man and they are not married. Examples of Marital Acts:

*Keys to the apartment

*Laying up under each other for hours at a time

*Putting things in each other’s name and you are not married (Cars, Cell phones, etc)

*Sex without a condom

*You call him your hubby or wife. (Bad words for a relationship is MY Wifey, MY Boo, MY anything. If you are not married to it, it’s not yours…)

*You are playing house. (i.e. Cleaning up their house, cooking etc...)

*Moving in or shacking up. (Why would you move in with someone without getting married? Don’t assume that just because you will move in with this dude, he’ll eventually marry you. )

*When you do these type of marital acts, you are giving a person the opportunity to use you up. They are getting the most out of you already so “why would they marry you?”.


*dude is on to something … why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free*

when will i get married?

You are 36% close to marriage!

 

You are near to making the cut but not quite there yet.. See a councillor, read some books or anything then come back to try again.

When will you get married?
Take More Quizzes

*ouch, guess I have alot of growing to do*

currently reading: Little Earthquakes by Jennifer Weiner

I've recently read two books by Jennifer Weiner. In her Shoes and Good in Bed, now I'm on Little Earthquakes definitely something to write home about. I've gotten into the book so quickly, its something that I could definitely relate - adjusting to life as a new mother. So far a very refreshing read.




think she's going to be on my to read author other books written by Jennifer Weiner

Fly away Home
Best Friends Forever
Certain Girls
The Guy Not Taken
Good Night Nobody

35 Things I Want to Do/Experience before I Turn 35

1. Try parasailing at least once
2. Become debt free, except for a mortgage/car loan
3. Have at least three months salary in a savings account
4. Start a savings for the boys that will equal their ages
5. Visit Las Vegas
6. Visit Mexico
7. Visit Europe, anywhere in Europe
8. Go on a Disney Cruise with the boys
9. Run/Walk a 5K
10. Sponsor lunch for a child in need for one school term
11. Have a standing monthly get together/dinner/game/movie night with family
12. Be comfortable enough to wear a bikini at the beach
13. Volunteer/Become active in at least one charity
14. stop giving a flying fcuk about what others think
15. Attend a NBA Basketball Game
16. Get involved in a sporting activity
17. Learn another language (or at least start)
18. Purge my closet and donate the clothes
19. Get a new wardrobe
20. Learn to swim
21. Buy a bicycle and ride 3 miles
22. Watch a ballet
23. Ride a horse
24. Read all of the books written by my 3 favourite authors
25. Spend New Years Eve in another Country
26. Visit a Museum
27. Memorize one bible verse a month (Proverbs)
28. Learn a new word daily
29. Do something randomly nice for one person a month (secretly)
30. Take a risk
31. Buy a House
32. Become a blood donor
33. Get my tattoo removed
34. Buy myself a piece of real jewelry
35. Get married

nowplaying: Right to be Wrong - Joss Stone

I've got a right to be wrong
My mistakes will make me strong
I'm stepping out into the great unknown...

A man in the house is worth two in the street. ~Mae West~

definition: It is better to accept or be content with what one has than to try to get more and risk losing everything

1st 10 songs on my shuffle

1. She got her own Neyo
There ain’t nothing that’s more sexy than a girl that want, but don’t need me

2. That’s the way love goes Janet Jackson
Like a moth to a flame Burned by the fire My love is blind Can't you see my desire

3. Believe Lenny Kravitz
If you want it you got it You just got to believe, Believe in yourself

4. Love me better Kelly Rowland
maybe I'm crazy for thinking that you were gonna change or maybe it could just be me am i not loving you the same?

5. On my mind Daville
This love is real and I don’t wanna fool myself, it belongs to you and no one else

6. He Heals me India Arie
He heals me, he knows the real me, and he accepts me, he never hurts me

7. pepperPot Sean Paul
any which part you walk you got me caught you a di top my pepperpot

8. Picture KidRock Ft. Cheyrl Crow
Since you’ve been gone my world has been dark and gray

9. Be without you Mary J. Blige
Anybody who’s ever loved, ya know just what I feel, too hard to fake it, nothing can replace it

10. Russian Roulette Rhianna
If you play, you play for keeps

nowplaying: Down on Me, Jermih ft. 50cent

"If I do not fit, I'm gonna make it, Girl, you can take it, don't stop, get it, get ...." ahem - LoL -

Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being “in love” which any of us can convince ourselves we are.

Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Your mother and I had it, we had roots that grew towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two.

~Captain Corelli’s Mandolin

You've got to swim out of your comfort zone to catch the wave thats going to change your life.

Every new day is another chance to be a better person than you were the day before.

nowplaying: looking for someone to love me - Diddy ft Mary J and Weezy